Here are ten attractive traits
that every man keeps in mind when
deciding if the woman (ie. you) sitting
across the dinner table from him at
that first date is girlfriend material.
1. Confidence
Take it from the guys, nothing is sexier
than a woman who’s comfortable in her
own skin. If you’re guilty of meekly
asking lines like: “Does this skirt make
my thighs look fat?” … stop asking. If
you’re constantly needing his
reassurance that you’re beautiful, he
may start asking questions himself.
2. Intelligence
Acting like a bimbo loses it’s novelty to
men after high school. What men want in
a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as
his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman
you are! To him, it’s a total turn-on.
3. Unmaterialistic
Yes, he wants to be your knight in
shining armor. And yes, he wants to
treat you like the princess you are …
but that doesn’t give you license to act
like one. Allow him the
luxury of treating you with
romantic dinners and surprise baubles
without having to demand them of him.
He’ll be relieved that he doesn’t have to
try so hard and surprisingly, this will
inspire him to rise to the occasion when
he doesn’t have to dedicate his whole
paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for
you.
4. Spontaneity
One of the first things to go in a
relationship is the spontaneity. You get
stuck in your Friday nightdinner dates
and you lose that spark you had when
you first started dating each other.
Don’t lose it! Men love a woman who can
do things spur-of-the-moment (like
grabbing him by the shirt collar and
pulling him into the bedroom before he
goes to work for some morning fun?).
5. Laid-Back
What’s one of the best things you can
do for your relationship with him? Relax.
Just relax. When you come home from a
long, hard day at work and see those
dishes piling up in the sink, we know you
have the urge to lash out at him.
Instead, try to let it go for the night. No
man likes a nag andevery man likes a
woman who can let her hair down and
doesn’t sweat the small stuff. We’re not
saying to just kick back and bro out with
him, but a relationship is solid when
you’re able to relax with each other.
6. Playfulness
Guys like a girl who laugh at their jokes,
but isn’t mindless and isn’t always
serious about everything. Just as we
mentioned that men like a woman who
can forgo nagging him about the dishes,
they like a woman who can joke about
the dishes too. Biting remarks and
snappy comebacks are just the witty
repartee to keep the spark between
you in your relationship. And hey, isn’t
laughter the best aphrodisiac?
7. Sensuality
We’ve already mentioned before that
it’s not all about your looks (albeit,
that’s a good motivator for some men) —
it’s more about an air of sexiness and
confidence that will draw his eyes to
you when you enter the room. Embrace
your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants
for date night and take the extra ten
minutes to pull the LBD from the back of
your closet. You shouldn’t feel
pressured to strut around the bedroom
in lingerie and high heels like a Victoria’s
Secret angel every night, but you
should feel comfortable in your own
sexuality… and expressing that
sensually to your man.
8. Honesty
If he can’t trust you — how can he ever
see you as his girlfriend … and eventual
spouse? Keep things open and honest
in your relationship. A little white lie
over flirty texts with an old guy friend
from college can spiral out of control
very quickly into a full-blown fight …
and breakup.
9. Independence
Dating a driven, passionate woman? So
hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger?
Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend
they have to reassuringly text, call or
visit every five minutes. Give him his
poker night with the boys. Let him go
golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your
guy his space — or he may break up with
you to get it.
10. Supportive
As clichéd as it is, some men want to be
caretakers… but even the strongest of
men want a soft place to fall. He wants
to know that you’ll support him and
stand by him in his life choices, whether
it’s changing careers or moving to a new
city. Show your support in small
gestures with a quick “I love you” text
when he heads off for his morning
commute and listen to him after a hard
day’s work. Be supportive — but not
suffocating. The last thing you want is
to remind him too much of his mother.
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