Think of a kiss as a waltz— the man
takes lead, but he must be attuned to
his partner’s wishes. Though
assertiveness is a plus point, every
woman is different.
I still remember my first kiss. Sloppy,
intrusive, thrusting into thin air like a
blunted sword, until a resounding wallop
on his shoulder let me regain
possession of my violated oral cavity. I
was sure I would never permit it to
happen again because of this.
1. Your tongue is not an explorer of
Amazon forests Avoid thrusting forays
into her mouth with your tongue. Not
only does that make you seem
demanding, women also think of the
tongue as an overt phallic symbol, so
flourish it too freely while kissing and
she will get the right wrong idea about
your intentions. By the way, tongue
kissing is an absolute no-no if you are
kissing her for the first time. An easy
rule of thumb is only to use your tongue
when you feel her tongue in your mouth.
2. Her mouth is not a barbecued leg of
chicken Clamping your mouth greedily
over hers will make you seem like a
glutton. Instead, you might distinguish
yourself from the hoi polloi if you think
of her mouth as an ice-cream cone.
Gentle does it. Ease yourself, go with
the flow, and do what seems right in the
moment. Gentle, with your eyes closed,
and she will not be able to think
coherently.
3. Her lips are not made of pliable
rubber Yes, kisses are sometimes wet
and slobbery. However, that only
happens when you have been kissing for
more than five minutes. Before that,
wet kisses only feel sloppy. Besides,
lappy kisses only make you seem needy
and definitely does not give a good
impression.
4. Physical proximity and access to her
mouth are not valid reasons to grope
her Your body language while kissing
should show her that you respect her
body. Holding her around the waist is
okay, but LOOSELY is the key word.
Brownie points if she pulls you closer or
snuggles into you. Other than this, you
have no access to any place below her
neck.
5. Ease in for the kiss instead of
invading her private space Think of a
kiss as a waltz—the man takes lead, but
he must be attuned to his partner’s
wishes. Though assertiveness is a plus
point, every woman is different. Why
rush into a kiss when you can tease her
out of her come- hither coyness? Kiss
the corners of her mouth instead. Bite
her earlobe. Get close, but not close
enough…there is a ten to one chance
that she will make the first move. Even
if she does not, she has plenty of time
to guess your intentions and pull away if
the timing is not right! I am perfectly
aware that the type of kissing I am
suggesting here is of the romantic kind,
not of the overbearing, grope-y kind.
However, I figured that you would
already know how to engage in that kind
of kissing. This is how you do it if you
want to make a lasting impression.
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