seriously searching? Here are places
you can get a good man
1. Business Conferences – While the
first thing that comes to mind is that
men are only looking for an extra-
marital fling on business trips, there
are still quite a few single, ambitious,
smart men at seminars and business
conferences. Since the atmosphere is
business, it’s very easy to approach
and ask a man who he is and what he
does. Meet greet and start up a
conversation. Just be sure to check
his left hand for the presence of a ring
or tan lines.
2. Bars – We’re not talking about the
fancy, trendy bars like the 40/40 Club
where everyone is fabulous and the
women are even more fabulous in their
stilettos and party dresses. The local
bar/tavern in a nice neighborhood
attracts mostly people with adams
apples. Sports bars, in particular, are
best. Bars boast of games, pool tables
and even slot machines depending
what town you are in. The big wide, flat
screens, usually turned to sports
coverage, offers a variety of
conversation-starter topics.
3. SPORTS GAMES – Don’t go trying to
go be a groupie at the local NBA game..
Instead use sites like Meetup.com to
find adult sports leagues in your area!
A lot of couples have met like this.
4. VOLUNTEER GROUPS – If a man is
volunteering his time to help out the
elderly or the homeless chances are
he has a really good heart.. A
surprising number of newlyweds met
this way.
5. THE WORKPLACE – You hear people
say don’t mess around where you work
at, but what better place to get to
know someone than the workplace..
You can tell his work ethic, you know
his pay grade, and you can even watch
him from a distance before you make
yourself noticed.
6. CHURCH – The house of the lord is a
excellent place to find a good man
because any good man first has his
foundation set in God.. However, every
man at your church is not a good man.
You have to get to know the man of
God the same way you would a man you
met at another place.. After, all, Men
of God are still humans that make
mistakes
7. Right in Your Own Backyard – Your
neighborhood is filled with good men.
Walk your dog around the block or go
jogging. You might run into Mr. Right.
8. Family – Ask your family members to
introduce you to eligible men they
know.. This might be old fashioned, but
it works.
9. SCHOOL CAMPUS – We are all
adults here so I’m definitely not talking
about your local middle school or high
school. I’m talking college campus’
where many adults roam from building
to building and class to class.. A very
high number of successful couples was
college sweethearts.
10. Every year, NBA All-Star Weekend
comes to a town, and all people think
about are the groupies… The groupies
are on to something… They realize
something that the respectable
women don’t know… There will be
thousands of eligible, good men
flocking to this major sporting event…
A very high number of couples has met
this way.
11. Festivals – The Essence Music
Festival, known as the “party with a
purpose” is one of a kind. With live
music from top entertainers and very
popular speakers, the festival draws
over 200,000 men every year… Get
yourself down to New Orleans this
year.
12. Hardware Store – A hardware store
or home-improvement store like
Lowe’s is a great place to meet men,
plus it’s easy to strike up a
conversation with a man about any
given product. Chances are he knows
more than you when it comes to the
tools and will be more than happy to
answer your questions.
13. Childhood Friends – Did you ever
think that Little William, who you used
to beat up would grow up to be such a
handsome man? Childhood friends can
make very good mates.
14. The Grocery Store – Everyone has
to eat. Single men have to do their own
grocery shopping. So don’t go to the
store with scarf on your head thinking
no one will see you… A good man may
bump into you in the health-food aisle.
15. The Gas Station – Everyone does
have to stop and get gas eventually.
Even if you don’t need gas go in there
and grab a snack or a bottle of water…
Mr. Right might see you walking out.
16. Throw a House Party – If you’re
single throw a party at your home. Tell
everyone to invite all of their male
acquaintances and women too. Pull out
the barbecue grill, serve some
hor’dourves, have a wine tasting or
simply a nice dinner party… Since
you’re the hostess you will definitely
need to introduce yourself to the
handsome man across the room…
Even better make him a drink.
17. The Internet – Social Media sites
like Facebook and Instagram are good
for more than just updating your
status and looking at other people’s
photos. Plenty of single people are on
these sites just waiting to meet
someone they can fall in love with.
18. Don’t forget about the coffee house
– Lots of men love Starbucks just as
much as women… Men sit there
drinking coffee and reading
newspapers… Walk in there and get
yourself a Caramel Frappuccino and an
excellent man to go. Don’t take me
literally and move too fast, I did not
say coffee and a one-night stand…
Remember we are talking about
catching a good man.
19. Steakhouses – Single men often
times crave a good gourmet steak and
are often seen dining by themselves
at steakhouses. Instead of getting a
table most of them have a drink and
eat their steak at the bar… You, on
the other hand, should definitely not
sit at the bar… Instead sit at a table
next to the bar… Also this may feel a
bit weird, but do not take your
girlfriend with you, as men are more
comfortable approaching a woman
when she is alone.
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