First impressions can really be the last
impression sometime. Here is what you
need to avoid on that first date.
So you have got a big date? Well, here
is what you should avoid if you want
this to go anywhere.
Poor manners: Lets get this clear,
ladies still like gentlemen and if have
your manners right, you are sure to
score high. Be chivalrous, soft spoken
and be at your gentleman best. Be nice
to people when you are out there with
her. That will let her know you are soft
hearted.
Practice good table manners. If you are
out for dinner, it is important that you
order what she likes to eat. Taking
charge of the situation with the order
is not the right move. Be mindful of
using your hands carefully, toothpicks
and napkins. That will make you look
more particular and careful as a person.
Let her do the talking is yet another
idea that will surely maker her like you.
But don't let the conversation go one
sided. Make sure you are listening to
her and genuinely interested in her
conversation. Give your inputs at the
right time, show interest and be
involved.
Let your mobile be for the entire
evening. Turning on the silent mode
would be the best. You can do all the
calling and texting for later. Give your
complete attention to her, everyone
likes attention.
Do not compare your date with your
exes. Many people tend to make that
grave mistake and end up hurting the
building relation. People are different
and no one is the same. There are
chances that if you start comparing you
will lose the chance of looking at the
positive qualities of the one you are on
a date with.
Follow up properly. If you want to see
the girl again then tell her precisely.
Vague follow ups can be dangerous. You
want her to know that you are a
genuinely interested and want to see
her again.
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